Why is so much faith put in Social Services when children are involved in Family Court as when it all goes wrong all they have to do is role out that same old mantra " We will learn from this and move on !" well they do move on but rarely learn from it and even get compensated when they themselves get it wrong, and they in turn act as scapegoats for failing family court judges who can then sight their inaccurate reports as to why they made their (all too often irreversible) judgements!
I wonder why Social Services are called upon to report on fairly mild cases in family law. If there were previous cases of violence or abuse this would be on record as a matter of fact and once again why is it most often assumed it is Dad who is the abuser? In the 7 years I have been researching this subject I have found more women abuse then men and all to often it is the hidden abuse of psychology that a mother will use to 'persude' a child to act in such a way when even a relatively young child knows it to be wrong, but fears going against the resident parent as he/she has to live with that parent daily. The cruelest of abuse is Parental Alienation something Social Services doesn't even recognise yet whilst it allows a vindictive parent to use a child like a tool or even a weapon and at the worst extreme for ransom it is left to the non resident parent to anticipate the regret those children will feel in later life,those lost years in the relatively short span of time that is childhood that can never be replaced.
I believe Courts should have access to past medial records from the family doctor as this would quickly show up the false allegations that arise in family court so one parent may take advantage over another false allegations should also be dealt with as a crime and severe action including prison should be imposed even if it means taking the mother away from the children , she may then realise she is not serving her kids best interest by lying!
What chance have were mere lay people in this corrupted industry, when even those at the head of legal departments in Social Services fail to serve the children's best interest as that of this Council Leader
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