I dislike the Pheonix figure as it conjours up memories of a business I had 20 years ago and the number of customers that went out of business and reemerged as a new company no longer owing me many thousends of pounds and at a time when interest rates were at 15%! Call this a recession bah humbug!
It is however appropriate here as in spite of undue physical emotional, tangable, financial and legal restrictions put on Davey, warrior like I am back and as you get hardened to the retrictions placed on you in family courts so back in the real world you are able to battle through most things, although my terminally ill sister in law is facing some dark moments right now and I have to ask why do they tell you it is terminal if hope is all you have left, why is not more research going into other forms of Cancer now they have success with Breast, but above all why are GP's not trained to diagnose sooner or at least refer to someone if in doubt, I am sure many lives could be saved by earlier diagnosis!
Since writing this blog my courgous sisiter in law lost her battle with Cancer 19th May 2010, God bless you Chris.
The 19th March 2010 represents the 30th month to the day I have not been able to see my kids due to their vengeful mother. I for one and there are others who consider Parental Alienation Syndrome as Child abuse but I am also reminded of what was told to me by Families need fathers spokesman, the late Ian Mackay after he contributed to ‘Geldof on Fathers’ program and that was that judges that do down fathers the most are more likely to be promoted and sure enough as was the case of the then District Judge Pearl in Watford who gleefully unraveled the joint residency order and modest contact agreed over the preceding year though this so called Family Court system and that was with a CAFCASS reporter who’s ex husband was a member of FNF too ! When I suggested Munchausen’s or PAS to this Ann Robinson look alike I just got a cenacle patronizing giggle between here and my ex’s barrister who said “ doesn’t exist!” which is strange as they said if I was to see my children again I was to undergo a psychologal report which I did and the psychiatrist knew of PAS and his report was more damming to the mother then me so the Honorable Judge Pearl declared it inadmissible in court.
At the same time this appalling judge removed the penal notice placed on me by her lackey D.J. Rhodes as apparently I had prevented the children phoning the mother whilst in my care in spite of the fact I had supplied them both with mobiles (I thought they were to young for) and made the landline readily available, yet on this occasion the mother complained I was making them phone too often and to her annoyance and I was to stop! You could not make it up!!